Have you been insulted before?

Subject: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 8:33 am

Happened to me today, and i just wanna ask if it happened to anyone else.

You were hitting some balls with someone sitting behind you. He is observing and suddenly gave you the remark that your swing or your standard CMI.

It may be the truth but the comment nags on you and you just can't help feeling upset. How to deal with such comments or situations? Neutral

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 8:37 am

What is CMI?

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 8:38 am

WHAT !!!!!! Who dare to say you swing is wrong ! Guess that person is blind ! Mad

If i were you girl, i turn around and aim my 7i with a range ball toward him and say " If i am bad, no worry, my ball won't hit you ! "

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Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 8:39 am

Did he give insulting remarks?

Newbie Posts : 40 Join date : 2010-03-06

So hurting. Ask that person not to do it again or disown him as your friend.

RDG Top Contributer Posts : 5681 Join date : 2010-03-01

I kena b4! I was playing at NSRCC with my friends. I was doing quite well for my 1st 9. then this particular friend make a remark on my driver swing. Something like swing path not standard etc. the next moment I top my ball on the teebox! Mad

Newbie Posts : 40 Join date : 2010-03-06

ping_ping wrote:: Happened to me today, and i just wanna ask if it happened to anyone else.

You were hitting some balls with someone sitting behind you. He is observing and suddenly gave you the remark that your swing or your standard CMI.

It may be the truth but the comment nags on you and you just can't help feeling upset. How to deal with such comments or situations?

This happened at which range?

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 8:42 am

moi™ wrote:: What is CMI?

CMI == Cannot make it ! Mad

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 8:42 am

redbull wrote:

ping_ping wrote:: Happened to me today, and i just wanna ask if it happened to anyone else.

You were hitting some balls with someone sitting behind you. He is observing and suddenly gave you the remark that your swing or your standard CMI.

It may be the truth but the comment nags on you and you just can't help feeling upset. How to deal with such comments or situations?

This happened at which range?

Bro...you CID ah...let seiko do the dirty work !

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 8:44 am

Seiko wrote:: I kena b4! I was playing at NSRCC with my friends. I was doing quite well for my 1st 9. then this particular friend make a remark on my driver swing. Something like swing path not standard etc. the next moment I top my ball on the teebox!

Reminds me. I dislike people asking me to correct this and that during early part of betting game.

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Uncle Lau wrote:: Bro...you CID ah...let seiko do the dirty work !

I am only a golfer with a curious mind.

RDG Top Contributer Posts : 5681 Join date : 2010-03-01

moi™ wrote:

Seiko wrote:: I kena b4! I was playing at NSRCC with my friends. I was doing quite well for my 1st 9. then this particular friend make a remark on my driver swing. Something like swing path not standard etc. the next moment I top my ball on the teebox!

Reminds me. I dislike people asking me to correct this and that during early part of betting game.

Moreover we didn't bet! It's just a normal social game. I think he did it on purpose so I ignore him and focus on my mind...Some guys just cannot tahan outshone him!

Pingping, just ignore him n focus on your own game!

Established Member Posts : 346 Join date : 2010-02-23

Ping ping, cool down. Don't let this person spoil your day.

RDG Top Contributer Posts : 5681 Join date : 2010-03-01

No worries Pingping! if u feel down we can arrange to play a game together. A lot of them felt better after witnessed my swing....They are thinking how come this joker still ard with this kind of swing! Very Happy

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There are many golf swing. A not-good-looking swing can also deliver result. Most importantly is what suit you.

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 8:56 am

Snowman wrote:: There are many golf swing. A not-good-looking swing can also deliver result. Most importantly is what suit you.

I agreed with jason...when i swing, all my kakis took cover.... Shocked

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 8:56 am

20mins only so many replies. Have you been insulted before? Affraid

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 8:58 am

Uncle Lau wrote:: I agreed with jason...when i swing, all my kakis took cover....

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 9:00 am

moi™ wrote:: 20mins only so many replies.

At the rate she goes...jazz_samz can balek kampong..... Have you been insulted before? 16911

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 9:00 am

I dun think he is trying to insult me. But the way he puts it really makes u feel like you're very lousy.

Coz i help out my mum at mandai range with the kids and stuff. he made the remark resembling something like, this kinda standard also can help out?

After hearing it, a lot of doubts abt myself.

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 9:01 am

And guys, really thank you for all the kind words. even if what he said was true, you guys made me felt much better.

JL, thanks for your golden words too! =)

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Uncle Lau wrote:

Snowman wrote:: There are many golf swing. A not-good-looking swing can also deliver result. Most importantly is what suit you.

I agreed with jason...when i swing, all my kakis took cover.... Shocked

No leh! I stand behind u.... Rolling Eyes

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 9:06 am

ping_ping wrote:: I dun think he is trying to insult me. But the way he puts it really makes u feel like you're very lousy.

Coz i help out my mum at mandai range with the kids and stuff. he made the remark resembling something like, this kinda standard also can help out?

After hearing it, a lot of doubts abt myself.

My guess that person is also a fellow pro maybe from another range. His intend is to hurt you ! please ignore him or her and do the things you enjoy more, helping your mum..... Very Happy

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 9:06 am

Seiko wrote:

Uncle Lau wrote:

Snowman wrote:: There are many golf swing. A not-good-looking swing can also deliver result. Most importantly is what suit you.

I agreed with jason...when i swing, all my kakis took cover.... Shocked

No leh! I stand behind u.... Rolling Eyes

And got your head struck behind my backside !!!! oops........ Embarassed

Subject: Re: Have you been insulted before? Wed Apr 14, 2010 9:14 am

No leh~ he's not a pro. Just a regular golfer.

Uncle Lau wrote:

ping_ping wrote:: I dun think he is trying to insult me. But the way he puts it really makes u feel like you're very lousy.

Coz i help out my mum at mandai range with the kids and stuff. he made the remark resembling something like, this kinda standard also can help out?

After hearing it, a lot of doubts abt myself.

My guess that person is also a fellow pro maybe from another range. His intend is to hurt you ! please ignore him or her and do the things you enjoy more, helping your mum..... Very Happy